tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4372406549928075825.post9158150941141235694..comments2023-05-21T05:20:25.040-05:00Comments on Dear MaryJanes: A New HomeTaylorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04279589108479434284noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4372406549928075825.post-15105709688907377752010-11-27T19:18:35.123-06:002010-11-27T19:18:35.123-06:00Kathy,
You are so right, there was allot of pain. ...Kathy,<br />You are so right, there was allot of pain. But during those years I didn't see that I deserved better. I didn't understand that staying with my daughter's father was so wrong for her. She would have been so much better if I had known to move on with our lives. I see now that I had to get past the pain of my childhood and then figure out from my first marriage that there had to be something better out there. I just don't know why it took me so long. It is all so clear now. I was and am a hopeless romantic, and was so determined to change a man so unwilling to change. I see now that love and marriage isn't about molding to someones wishes or trying to change someone, it's about finding the right mate for you. A mate that loves you for who you are. And her father, he never did figure any of it out, as he shows no interest in MJ or her three beautiful children. And the sad thing is, My own mother did not have a relationship with her father, until he died and left her a handsome trust. Finally he acknowledged her as his child, she was 70 years old! For myself, My relationship with my own father ended when I was 26 years old. I have not seen him since, and yes, he is living. Following suit, MJ and her father have only a "civil in front of his family" type of relationship. Luckily, this family trait will end with MJ, she married a wonderful man that loves his children, including his daughter!<br />~Galoshes<br />PS, I will look into the You Tube you mentioned. Thank you for that!Sommers Breeze Antiqueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10183201617048149269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4372406549928075825.post-33522095330662332492010-11-27T15:47:01.831-06:002010-11-27T15:47:01.831-06:00The writings are intriging -when I visualize the w...The writings are intriging -when I visualize the words and feel the underlying pain -I often think about a guy "leo the poet" have you heard him? You can find him on You Tube -a lot of free flowing words of pain in his artKathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12371743635487864658noreply@blogger.com